Sometimes in order to comfort the disturbed, one must disturb the comfortable. 

Many people spend Mother's Day emotionally uncomfortable and disturbed on a very deep level.  These people are often ashamed, feel wrong and like outsiders from the human race on family days such as this.  They are often not acknowledged nor supported, so I write my blog today, in support of those who do feel dismay about Mother's Day approaching this Sunday.

Within each of us lies the potential for us to act with the grace of Gentlewoman and Gentleman or alternatively with ..... the aggression of a full flight Bitch or Bastard.  On any given day we can choose to be either ....a shining example .... or a bloody good warning.

When Robert Redford said to Michelle Pfeiffer "I've been here before" Michelle's character answered "Me too".

In the movie Up Close and Personal they were playing mid life characters both with a few marriages under their belt.  Their characters were both high achievers in their careers and the breaking point they both always seemed to reach in past marriages presented itself once more, this is when Robert Redford uttered these words.